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14:00

Hi peeps!
So today I just feel like writing, or typing. I'm not sure what I want to write about, or type about so let me start by a quick disclaimer. 
First of all, I'm sorry for my absence on my blog, one of the reasons being the fact I wasn't at home, I went away and spent some time with my family in Portugal and reason number two being I've been so busy with YouTube, house "issues" and personal life problems.
But now on the other hand, I also wanted to tell you a massive thank you. Thank you for all your support, all your constant worrying, comments, direct messages, thank you for simply being there, listening to me and even thank you for asking me my advice to you on certain topics.
With all that said now its time for me to do something for you, what blog posts would you like me to write? What videos would you like me to film? How can I help you?

alfie

Q&A

16:44

- What are you naming your guinea pigs? 
To be honest, I still don't even know, so if you have any cute ideas, please please please help me out!

- Are you doing Vlogmas?
Well this is a bit in advance isn't it? But yes, I probably will do vlogmas this time, yes.

- Favorite song at the moment?
Right right now, I am listening to Sugar by Maroon 5 I am obsessed, but I also love the Mcbusted songs (all of them to be precise), and Maroon 5's other song Maps, is also great.

- What was your favorite TV show as a child?
I used to completely love 100% Tracy Beaker (I have watched ever single episode, even the Tracy Beaker Returns), Arthur, Pingu, the Tweenies, the berenstain bears, my parents are aliens, Mary-Kate and Ashley, Memrie the vampire, and I'm not quite sure of any others right now. 

- If you could choose, who would be with you in the CBB house?
I would pick: Zoe Sugg (and any other Youtuber), Peter Andre, Dougie Poynter (or any other McBusted singer), Ellie Goulding, Aston Merrygold, Joe Swash, Alan Carr and Keith Lemon (for the LOL's) and I can't think of anyone else. 

- If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?
I would travel to LA, Florida, Paris, Australia, Germany, Italy, all over England and Ireland, and I can't think of any more countries. 

- Would you rather not have a Starbucks for 6 months or have to baby sit an anoying girl for 6 months?
Deffinetly not have a Starbucks for 6 months because here where I live in Spain you can't get them anyway, so it would not be a difficult task for me anyway.

- In the future where do you see yourself moving to?
I won't say move, but I would love to travel, and maybe spend some time in London or Brighton or just somewhere in England.

- What are your goals for 2015? 
Firstly, I would love to travel more, even if it is only around Spain or around my city area, but it would be a great start, and secondly, to be happy with myself, and also to get fit (or fitter).

-Who are your favorite YouTubers at the moment?
My favorite youtubers at the moment are Zoe Sugg, Alfie Deyes, The Saccone Joly's, the Michalaks, Joe Sugg, Caspar Lee, Oli White, Louise, Louis Cole (aka FunForLouis) and I don't know, basically all the British Youtubers.

- If you were to have any Youtuber as a sister, brother, mum and dad, who would they be?
Well Anna and Jonathan would just have to be my parents, so Eduardo and Emilia would technically be my brother and sister, but apart from them, FunForLouis would be a great brother, and Zoe would have to be my sister. 

- You get stuck in a lift for two days, which two people and two things would you take with you?
I would take Zoe and Alfie, just because I could, and they would make me laugh! And I would take my camera or phone to take selfies, and some water would probably be good.

- If you had to choose from the Kardashian's, who's bum, who's boobs, who's boyfriend, who's hair and who's face would you want?
Okay, this is a good question, I would want Kim's bum and boobs, Kourtney's boyfriend, Khloe's hair and either Kendall or Kim's face.

- What nationality are you?
I'm English, but I have been brought up in Spain since I was six. 

- If you could have any animal as a pet, what would it be? 
This is a hard one because I love nearly every animal, I think I'd have an anteater or a baby gorila, but I'd be scared of it when it was big so that wouldn't be a good idea.

- Marry, kiss and be friends with: Harry Styles, Louis Tomlinson and Zayn Malik.
I would marry Zayn (obviously), kiss Harry and be friends with Louis.

- If you could be given any present in the world what would it be?
I would just really like a puppy, or several of them, but  I've already got to many dogs so that isn't going to happen.

- If you could marry anyone in the world who would it be?
This is probably the least expected person, but Peter Andre, because I've always had a masive obsession with him, and he is just such a nice person, and so caring and such a good dad, I LOVE HIMMMMM.

-If you could marry any other Youtuber who would it be? 
It would have to be Jack Harries from JacksGap, just because I can't break up Zalfie or Narcus can I?

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Introvert or extrovert?

13:56

Basically, introverts and extroverts are personality trades, and they dictate how your brain works, how you act around people, and lots more. You can be both introvert and extrovert, which makes you an ambivalent (a mix of both, I believe), but usually you lean more towards one or the other, and in my case, I think I lean more towards being an introvert.
For example, a lot of the time I'd rather stay inside than go out to a party, and I find it really difficult to talk to new people and meet new people, because I feel really shy and awkward, I even feel weird going to meet up with a group of friends I haven't seen in a while. I'm not sure why but its just kind of how my brain works.
These things don't necessarily make me an introvert, but they are definitely characteristics of the personality and I think you kind of know which one you lean towards more.
I have had a few questions on social medias from people being quite concerned, I guess because they feel quiet and very sensitive and they don't like going out as much, and perhaps they feel a little antisocial, like people don't necessarily see them in the right way or the right light. No, this doesn't make you weird in any way for being the way you are and for being an introvert.
Being quiet and introspective aren't bad qualities to have, I think there is a thing, that extroverts are just seen as the "normal" ones, and in order to succeed in your life and your career, you need to be a big social person, that is super confident and good at talking in front of lots of people, and that is just not true at all, there are so many people that have shaped the world, who have been introverts like Einstein, Shakespeare, JK Rowling, Abraham Lincoln... all these people are introverts, and are all responsible for shaping the world.
Don't be scared for being this way. You are not weird for being the way you are, and you are still capable of doing absolutely amazing things, and I am not making this mean that extroverts are bad, some of my closest friends, and the best people I know are extroverts, but there is this special stigma where introverts aren't as highly guided as extroverts, and it isn't right, you should be able to be as different as you want to be, and as crazy as you want to be, and just be yourself. 
I would really appreciate if you could leave a comment down below telling me if you are either a introvert or whether you are an extrovert, I am just kind of interested to see what you say, and hopefully I will get closer and know you all a tiny bit better.
Thanks for reading, love you guys, stay weird and see you soon! Xx

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