February the 14th is Valentines Day, when people all over the world express their love for one another, although in my opinion, there shouldn't be a special day that your partner has to spend money on you and make you realize how much you love them, it should be like that everyday of the year.
     Anyway, with Valentines in mind, the first and important thing you need to know is that we fall in love. Falling in love is kind of an accident- usually a happy accident, but one we are not able to control.
Not everyone believes in love at first sight (me for example). Still it is a popular romantic idea that two people see each other for the first time, their hearts meet and their hearts pound and that moment they automatically know they found love. 
     Indeed for some, Valentines Day is a pleasant reminder of how single you are, but still this doesn't mean it has to be a depressing occasion. You can still treat yourself and be happy about where you are in life, you could meet up with some friends, or just treat it like any other day, you could have a "pamper day" or a "all about you day". The only thing you shouldn't do is sit around feeling sorry for yourself, this will just make the day depressing and dreaded. Don't worry it only comes once a year so get out there and in any of the many ways, enjoy it! 
     Hope you have a great Valentines and it all goes well if you are doing anything special and I would love to hear what you are going to be up to, or have been up to in the comments, until next time! Xx